The handshake is the most widely accepted form of non-verbal communication in the world, especially in the workplace. We introduce ourselves with it and say goodbye in the same way; in this gesture, we can exchange many subtle messages: welcome, approval, acceptance, congratulations, and even loyalty.

In the business world, handshakes are exchanged incessantly throughout the day; when we meet in hallways, in meetings, during interviews, with clients, colleagues, and superiors.

Mastering this versatile non-verbal communication tool can make the difference between being perfectly forgettable or being remembered as having a unique personality.

Here are six tips that will dramatically improve your handshake:

#6. Softness

Make sure your hand is not only clean but also free from roughness and calluses. Apply a moisturizing cream daily so that your palm feels soft to the touch.

#5. Warmth

If your hands are cold due to the weather or air conditioning, try wearing gloves so they don’t feel unpleasant when shaking hands. And of course, never shake hands while wearing a glove.

#4. No obstacles

Take special precautions with excessive rings, an unpleasant practice that always has followers here and there. It’s not only uncomfortable for the greeting, but you may be sending a message of a frivolous personality, which is not good in the business world.
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#3. Approach

Don’t wait for the other person to extend their hand; show confidence and boldness by taking the initiative and extending your hand first, firmly grasping theirs.

#2. Firmness

Ensure that your handshake has enough strength without “crushing” the other hand, and also without seeming weak or loose. Shake twice; this way it will look authentic.

#1. Smile and maintain eye contact

This is a very important sign of sincerity. If your interlocutor notices your eyes looking elsewhere, or that you’re not smiling, they may get a sense of coldness or disinterest from you.

If you’re going to a job interview, a meeting with your boss to discuss a promotion or a raise, or have any other important encounter, put as much effort into your handshake as you do into your resume, your appearance, your speech, and your attitude.

How is your handshake?